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I’m seriously surprised to received an email from this website about having new comment on this “already dead” blog. It’s been 4 years and there are still people who stumble across this blog. I’m flattered and amazed at comments being left here after so long. It’s weird to write in here after so many years. We are doing well but we have moved on in life and wasn’t sure if we still want to keep this blog. Somehow people who still leave comments here brought back those memories and I have the urge to continue writing. I’m not exactly sure if it’s going to be this blog. I may start a total new one. Who knows? When the time comes, maybe and I said maybe I will reveal it here soon. In the meantime, don’t get too frisky!

xoxo,

Sensual

I had ONS before and it was my first and last time. The reason is simple, no chemistry and no passion. Its just the normal humping. OR maybe because of this guy’s selfishness, it kinda put me off.

I met him @ a clubbing place. He has the boyish charms in him. Looking at his body language, i knew hes interested in me and all i have to do is to smile to him and i knew he will come over and buy me drinks. He did came over after some eye contacts. He wanna buy me a drink but i decline as im trying to finish a bottle of wine. We started chatting and with the booze, we kinda relax and start whispering into each other ears, brush my lips across his neck. As for him, he put his hand around my waist and couldnt stop nibbling my ear.

Well I guess I do not have to say much as we left the club shortly. We head to his car and went to his place(which I’m quite surprise as guys usually doesn’t bring the girls back home for the 1st time) When we reach his place, we couldn’t keep our hands to ourselves and before we reach his room, we had remove almost all our clothings. I was lying on the thin mattress in his room and he was licking me and touching me everywhere but the thing is before I could actually cum, he insert his dick into me and I was slighty turn off. He was pretty rough and it turn me off totally. But thank god, he finish his deed in a few minutes. Well the bonus is he didn’t walk away after the deed, he did hug me for a while and was telling me how good it feels. And I just nodded as I doesn’t want to bruise his ego.

After 5 minutes, he brought out a towel and ask me to go shower which I did and I was wondering how should I handle this situation as the effect of the booze was gone. I came out of the shower and saw him msging away on his phone. When he saw me, he just put his phone on the table and gave me a smile. He told me he would send me home after he shower and I let out a relief. Then he added “If you are hungry, you can join me for breakfast with a friend.” I quickly say a “NO”. I was brushing my hair and looking for a hairdryer, I accidentally drop his phone on the phone and when I pick it up, the screen show that he was msging his girlfriend and I was feeling disgusted. I seriously feel bad towards his gf though I didn’t know he was attached in the first place. Anyway I didn’t read the msg further as it’s not my style.

Anyway in the car, I was keeping quiet and he asked me what’s wrong. I told him I was tired and things like that and he just smile. When I reach my place, he offered to send me up, I told him that its alright and I can make my way up. He gave me a peck on my cheek and I got out the car and quickly walk to the lift. I seriously think it was the worst sex I ever had even it happened a few years ago. I was so grossed out that when he called me again, hoping to extend the ONS to FB. I told him straight that I’m not interested at all. I can tell from his voice that he was hurt. Well we did met again after some time, we acted like strangers and thank god he didn’t approach me as I think it will be awkward and weird.

So there, I never had an ONS after the incident and I realise sex without passion and a tinge of feelings are just normal humping. Oh well, maybe it’s just me.

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just a title to make you guys wake up with my title or did it just turn you guys off?

I am finally back from the “dead” writing this in the middle of night even though I am trying to do some research on some topics.

It has been chaos recently for me. I had writer’s block and to be honest, I got nothing sexually interesting to write. Recently, I have been feeling bloated because of overdue delayed menses.

It always hits you in the face when you feel fat. I guess it’s not easy to feel confident when slim gals are protrayed as the in-thing. But I guess we had to work hard to maintain sexually attractive to guys.

Which brings me to the next question. Do guys like fleshy gals or skinny gals? I have been told by my guy friends that they prefer abit of flesh on their girlfriends.

How about you?

In the meantime, dun get too horny

I’m horny and I need sex badly!!!

I have been really busy with work and do not have time to update this blog but we will do it soon when my life got more stable and not like chickens running around madly..

Till then…

Sexual urges or needs are something everyone will have. Be it men or women, we all have sexual needs. Everyone will have different ways to curb the needs and my way is to use the showerhead. When I’m feeling horny, I will give myself a longer shower time. Usually 15 minutes shower will drag for 30 minutes.

Why showerhead if you are wondering. Why not get a trustworthy vibrator? I don’t own one, so I’m not able to try whether it will be as good as the showerhead. Let’s just say, I’m quite happy with my showerhead now and I do get intense orgasms from it. Don’t get me wrong, I love to make passionate love with men; I totally enjoy men giving me cunnilingus. But the thing is, I can’t possible grab any guys on the streets and have sex with them right. I’m sensual but ain’t a slut. I prefer some passion or some feelings when having sex and its one of the reason why I don’t like ONS.

So after a hard day work, I will need a warm shower to perk me up and when I feel the urges, I will just extend my shower time. I will give myself a thorough scrub and I will start to fantasize someone giving me a scrub or use past sex escapades for mind stimulant. I will change the temperature to lukewarm and use the let the water pressure hit my sensitive areas. I will not let myself to cum so soon. I will alternate the temperature, get myself even hornier and when I know I couldn’t take it anymore, I will switch the water temperature to cool and give me the intense orgasm that I have been craving for. After the intense one, I will continue and give myself a few small orgasms. By then, my body will be flushed and my clit will be swollen. Give myself one last wash, wrap myself with my fluffy towel and then head to my bed and rest.

A friend ever asks me if I ever feel that a guy will not be able to satisfy me like the showerhead. To be honest, sometime I felt that I have relied on my showerhead too much that guys are not able to make me cum by doing cunnilingus. But no way I’m gona forsake my showerhead anytime soon unless I found a permanent boyfriend who can give me a fantastic cunnilingus. Until then, I will relied on my showerhead when I feel horny or not getting lot of sex.

I will never forget how this guy whom I had known for less than a few months coming up with this proposition to me in the middle of the night while we were chatting online.

He was a guy whom I do not talk often. I knew him from one of my friend’s functions. Prior to that, I met him together with his girlfriend and my friend. Yes, you didn’t read it wrongly. He has a girlfriend. He is happily attached from what I can see with them together.

We chat on & off but we didn’t meet up after the function after a very long while. I always had a very good impression of him though. I always thought that he was a very nice & sweet guy because his girlfriend was very plump but he didn’t mind it even though he is not bad looking.

We were chatting normally online with the usual banter. Then he started telling me he was lonely. I asked him why don’t why you find your girlfriend. He replied me saying which one I was refering. I replied saying that I was refering to his confirmed girlfriend.

He mentioned that he need someone to accompany him and whether I was interested anot. I was shocked & shook my head in disbelief. This is a guy who is happily attached and he is willing to risk it all just for one night with me. I did have questions about why he wanted to do this.

He was very upfront about it. He told me that he wanted some cuddling and kissing. Even though he didn’t mentioned exactly whether we are going to have sex & that he wants company but the thought of it just turns me off.

He specifically mentioned that he wanted a secret lover. I didn’t know I have a secret lover/ mistress look. That was an interesting bit for me. Should I feel flattered or feel upset at the insult implied?

He made it clear that it was just company that we are providing with each other only & nothing else in return. He was very interested in meeting me that night but I turned him down. I think he just wanted to have some fun with no obligations at my expense.

After that night. we don’t even chat with each other anymore. I wonder whether is it because he was spurned by me which is why the reason why we can’t even be friends anymore. It is sad in a certain kind of way but I guess it is very hard to remain as friends too. Especially since now I know he has weird lustful thoughts about me before.

I do hope that his girlfriend will never know the truth that her beloved one is doing things behind her back. I am pretty sure that I am not the only one and will not be the last one either to be approached.

Does men prefer women to be bare there or they prefer to have a bit of hair at the south of our women’s body. I epilate and yes I try waxing before. I enjoy men to “eat me” or in other words to give me a mind-blowing cunnilingus. Its something most women will enjoy. To be honest, I think it’s a skill men should acquire. They need to know how to satisfy a woman; well at least he must satisfy me using his tongue.

My first time experience was at this shop at Orchard. I was actually being asked by my friend to go with her and give it a try. I hesitate at first as I heard about the pain and the rashes after that. My friend actually assured me that its just like ants’ bites but what she didn’t tell me is that its actually million of ants’ bites. In the end, I decide to act like a “real” woman and head in. The lady wasn’t really very friendly, she just asks me to take off my panties and lie there. I just did what I was told. She didn’t say much but just put the hot wax on the vagina’s mouth. I can feel the heat and squirm a little. She didn’t say anything to assure me but place the cloth or whatever you call it on my skin and just rip it off and I really mean RIP it off. I let out an audible “Ouch”. She just looked at me like I’m a wuss. She just carry on with what she’s doing and ignores my “ouches” or “damn”. She actually tells me in the face: “Stop squirming and let me get over it. I have lots of customers waiting outside.” I just look at her in disbelief but since I’m a woman that believes in dignity, I just let her continue and endure the pain. No cursing under my breath.

After the trauma experience, I wore back my panties and leave the shop with my gal friend. She wanted to pee very badly so we went to the rest room. Lets just say it was a wrong move as the panties is stick to our skin as there’s still a bit of wax and I actually see beads of blood on my panties and lets just say the salty water burns my skin. Anyway, I didn’t do a Brazilian wax. I actually leave a tiny strip on my pussy. I just feel sexy and erotic. It just put me into the mood of having passionate sex and I can’t wait for a man to “eat me” which I had the following night – and that may be the next storyI gona write.

So do you like it bare there or?

Dinner is something essential in dates. Its can helps or kill the date though its still personality that does the job in the end. Usually for first date, dinner will make a better choice as lunch can be too rush for some people who works. Anyway, I decide to name some restaurants that men brought me for the first dates or recurring dates. It will be a good suggestions for you men out there who needs to get a place for dinner for first date or even Valentine’s Day.

So here it goes :

- Blu Restaurant
Its situated at Shangri-la Hotel at Orange Grove Road. You can bring the girl to the bar for a drink before moving on to the restaurant for dinner. Theres actually live jazz singer, subtle lights everywhere. Its a very romantic place for the first date.

Food: 3 out of 5 stars
Ambience: 4 out of 5 stars
Service: 3.5 out of 5 stars

- The Cliff
Situated at The Sentosa Singapore, Beaufort Hotel in Sentosa. They serve seafood and you can get the freshest oysters from them. Recently, I went there for dinner,their varities are not as good as before though. To get their best seats that overlook the cliff, you will have to book two weeks in advance.

Food: 3 out of 5 stars
Ambience: 3.5 out of 5 stars
Service: 4 half out of 5 stars

- Margarita’s (no website)
There’s actually two outlets, one at Faber Drive and the one is at East Coast. I have only been to the one at Faber Drive. A nice cozy restaurant. Try to get the left corner at the main door. Its a cozy corner for the couple to say sweet nothings to each other without people hearing it.

Food: 4 out of 5 stars
Ambience: 2.5 of 5 stars on weekends. 3 out of 5 stars on quiet nights
Service: 3 out of 5 stars

- Equinox
I’m sure this a famous restaurant that don’t need much introductions. The scenery are good enough to make me swoon. If you are acrophobia sufferer, this is not an ideal place for you.

Food: 3 out of 5 stars
Ambience: 4 out of 5 stars
Service: 3.5 out of 5 stars

- IndoChine Waterfront @ Empress Place
In the restaurant, theres actually incense burning and subtle lightings that puts you into the mood of Karma Sutra. If you can’t get enough of spicy food, this is an ideal place as they serve IndoChinese cuisine.

Food: 3.5 out of 5 stars
Ambience: 3.5 out of 5 stars on quiet nights
Service: 4 of 5 stars

- Shiro Japanese Haute Cuisine
Situated at Greenwood Avenue, a good place for delicious japanese food. I went there for lunch once so I’m not exactly sure how does it feels like to dine at night. Its a small place though so better make reservations before heading down.

Food: 3.5 out of 5 stars
Ambience: 3 out of 5 stars
Service: 3.5 of 5 stars

- Jerry’s BBQ & Grill
A cosy place situated at Jalan Kayu. Their famous chicken wings are to die for, drink lots of water though. Its not a very expensive place for dinner,a good place if you are on budget.

Food: 4 out of 5 stars
Ambience: 2 out of 5 stars
Service: 3.5 of 5 stars

- Flutes at the Fort
Its situated at the Fort Canning Park. I havent been there but my friend introduce this place to me so I thought I should plugged this restaurant. After dinner, you can take a stroll in the park or even better have a quickie on the bench.

No ratings as never been there

The above restaurants are places that I have been and I kinda think its an ideal place for first date. Guys, the most important thing is to ask what your date like before deciding the place. The place may impress her but the most ultimate thing is still yourself.

Happy Valentine’s Day in advance !

For me, sex is not very important. Sometimes, it’s the little things like cuddling up, kissing and even holding hands that matter. It’s so nice to even cuddle up with someone you like and it just makes you feel so safe & warm.

With the interwining of tongues that’s signifies hot kissing action, I can feel the passion and also shudders down my spines with the right person. Have you ever felt butterflies in your stomach when you are going to meet that special someone? So far, I felt it thrice. The anticipation, the waiting, the final scene of seeing each other just sends me into a frenzy. Especially when I know I get to snuggle up and also share kisses.

It’s been a while since I felt that. I think it’s because I like to love the idea of falling in love more than falling in love itself. Like what Sensual mentioned, I am going to stay in at home on this valentine’s day. & If there is any chance I am going out with a guy, I will just hold his hands for show. Haha.

At the moment, I am fine with the current situation. I think I got not enough dates to go around. Must keep a lookout already

Have a lovely valentine’s day too girls & boys